In much agreement with your sentiment,
My overall opinion on the definition of homo-/heterosexuality based on attraction to dick/pussy is that it was hastily formed by cis gay men as a response to rising voice for trans inclusion; so that they can exclude "undesirable" transmen from being considered as a part their homosexuality. Rather than owning up to their prejudice, which characteristic they feel they are immune from having (simply because of the history of prejudice they've been oppressed with), it seems they feel it more convenient to simply change what gay is supposed to be.
Noticed that determining homosexuality based merely on the exclusive factor of attraction to the dick seems only to appear when discussing transsexual men. I have hardly heard such serious discussion of that homo definition anywhere else. (Heh, all the social media and movies that I have seen about closeted gay men coming to terms with their homosexuality showcase an array of beautiful male
bodies; not just their dics, if their dics
at all.)
Look at the following really hot transmen. What gay guy is not going to fancy these very sexually attractive
men?
